For every charter on Amaryllis a food preference sheet is sent out in advance of the charter. This is very important for several reasons. First, we need to have everything on board for the entire week before we leave the dock as we will be visiting beaches, not supermarkets, for the rest of the week. We can find rum everywhere we go but not a loaf of bread or a bit of butter! And we want to be sure to have your favorite foods and libations on board. Most importantly, I need to know about food allergies. And, of course, you can tell me what foods you don't like.
But here's where I have a problem with the food preference sheet. We serve 'family style' on the boat. If one person does not like shrimp does that mean that shrimp has to be off the menu entirely or is that person willing to eat around it? If someone doesn't like Indian food, is that because they had a mediocre curry one time and never ventured further? Perhaps there should be a box on the preference sheet about 'willing to try new food experiences'.
Case in point: I was cooking for my 18 year old son and his friend. The vegetable I had on board was cauliflower which most people (especially kids) dislike. I sliced it thin and tossed it with olive oil, roasted on a cookie sheet for about 20 minutes so it was nicely browned, tossed it a second time with balsamic vinegar and fresh grated parmesan and roasted it an additional 10-15 minutes. The end result was delicious and as addictive as potato chips! Both boys were shocked to find that they loved cauliflower. I have had similar conversions with just about any vegetable roasted carmelized, or grilled. And David Letterman's Mom included on her ultimate 'top ten' list: 'everything tastes better with bacon'.
So when you fill out your preference form, what I really want to know is this. What can I do in the galley to make this your best vacation experience? Would you like to experience some new dishes or would you be happier with all your favorites from home? Perhaps a little of both? I love it when guests share a favorite recipe with me and go home with one of mine!

